Thursday, June 21, 2012

My memories..

      How would you feel when you get to know that principle has summoned
you at his/her office?? There will always be a curiosity until you
rush there and find out thinking what did I do again… I felt the same.
 The words that came out of her mouth were magical.
She said “The Samiti wants to send a student from our school to Japan.
Since you scored well in the previous exams would you like to be that
student? ”. I had to pinch myself to check if I was dreaming.
Getting the passport was really dramatic as I was a minor and I had no
birth certificate. (Moral: keep everything ready,
It might come handy).
It was a youth exchange program organized by Japanese government. The
purpose was to learn their culture and exchange our views about peace.
The days were passing very quickly and I was busy reading about them.

The briefing session in Delhi was where I made friends. I talked to
almost everyone and half of the people said with pride that they were
from different JNV’s.
They divided us into three groups according to the places we were
going to visit. And luckily I got to go to Hiroshima. The city which
was burnt down to ground.

When I got the flight ticket first thing I did was to check the
airfare and one way ticket had cost 64k. The words that came out were
WOW. The air hostess was pretty and the Japanese dress made them look
prettier. They asked me if I had ordered special food which I later
found out that special food meant vegetarian food. The mini TV’s with
cut short movies were fun. As soon as we landed they took us in a big
AC bus to the Tokyo King’s castle. The place was picture perfect and
very clean. The guards were still like a statue. The guide said if we
disturbed them, we would get kicked out of the country.

They had given us the identity card and in case if we get lost we were
supposed to show the lines written behind it. I went and asked our
instructor to translate it for me. She read “ I’m lost. I don’t know
the language. Please contact the number below.”  And she also added
that Japanese people are very hospitable, cheerful and helpful. Later
I found out that there were no words to describe them. The best part
is every person respects every other person equally.

The punctuality of the people over there is remarkable. Even the train
doesn’t come a minute late. The technology they live with is amazing.
The super fast trains, robots, computers, automatic cars, etc.

The trip to Hiroshima was the best part of the program. It is a place
I would want to visit once again in my life. The city is full of sky
scrapers surrounded by beautiful landscape. There was the Miyajima
where the deer’s ate foreigner’s passport. (We were warned well in
advance). The island is full of temples and the structure is a mixture
of Indian and Chinese architecture.

We went to a girl’s high school where we met our host sisters… It was
the family we were going to stay while we were in Hiroshima. The girls
over there were fascinated by our clothes, bindis and bangles. We
could see the curious eyes peeking out of classrooms.  I met Ayako
chan there (chan is a word used as a respect to the person) the
loveliest person I've ever met and her cute pet Choko. The Japanese
houses are the most comfortable ones to live in. They are totally made
of wood and a beautiful garden surrounding it. Ayako’s mother prepared
Indian curry for the first time and asked me to check if it was
alright. I regretted that I never learnt to cook. All the time the
words that came out of our mouth was arigatoh (Thank you) and all they
said was “do itashi mashite” (Most welcome). All were in tears on the
day of farewell. I’m still in touch with her and the days I spent with
them are memorable.

The school has its own history. It had survived the bombing and the
stories of their victims were published as a book. The Hiroshima peace
memorial left a lasting impression on us. When the bomb fell, only
ashes were left of a person who was standing right there. The
blackened stone was there on the display. A mother gave a statement
“My son was exposed to the bomb, he came home and ate nothing. Next
day I tried to comb his hair and all the hair came out as if he was
wearing a wig. He died two weeks later. Let this hair be a tribute to
his memory. He was 10”.
According to the eye witnesses the skin was melting as if it was wax
and the worst part was everyone was helpless…
A Japanese girl suffering from radiation believed that if she folded
1000 paper cranes she would be cured but alas she died before she
could complete her project. The children from all over the world send
paper cranes all the time.
All the people coming out of the museum were in tears and with a
determination that they would to anything for Hewa (World peace). The
Japanese pose to any picture holding their hands with a “V” sign which
according them stands for peace. I decided that I would try my best
for world peace.

On the day we returned we had to give a talk on how the experience was
and I got the privilege to stand before the Indian ambassador in Japan
and talk about our group’s experience there. I had never felt so
important before. The stage fear in me was gone.

All this was possible because of Navodaya. The dedicated, encouraging
and hardworking teachers who work harder than students make everything
possible. The world follows Darwin’s rule i.e. Survival of the
fittest. And I can say that you won’t find people fitter than
Navodayans. The school changed our lives and shaped our future.

“I miss all those thousands of rules,
The butler kanglish with funny accent,
The all kinds of fancy dresses,
Hiding in the library and reading novels during exams,
The Sunday chapati making with the flour all over floor,
Trying desperately to make an excuse to get out of the school,
Finding excuses to skip morning exercise,
All I’ve to say is I miss those good old days”
                                                                                               
                                                                                                 - Doyal Zenim Saldanha(2002-2009 Batch)

At the crossroads of my life …


I get down the car with my luggage in one hand and admission letter in the other. I am wearing formal suit, Van Heusen’s collared white shirt, necktie and black trousers. I bid farewell to my parents.        No! it’s not what you are thinking. This was not the way I came to Navodaya but the way I got admitted to the Indian Naval Academy, Ezhimala, Kerala which was solely because of the education and exposure, enthusiastic teachers, their guidance and blessings I gained during my 7 years of stay in JNVB.       So, I bid farewell to my parents and enter the office where I meet a man who is checking the admission letters. He was a burly guy in his mid 30s with a hair cut similar to Brad Pitt in ‘The Inglorious Bastards.’ His name was Captain Bal Bahadhur Singh. He was annoyed admitting students from morning to evening and I was the last guy!I: Hello Sir. I am Cadet Abhilash UN.Captain: I don’t give a damn who you are! Get your things on that chair and give me all your documents, hurry up, you're in the Indian Navy now!Make it fast.(I didn’t open my mouth for two days except for eating.)       Making me a defence officer was my parents’ dream rather than mine (in fact every parent likes to see their children in alluring uniforms) though I liked the uniforms and majestic ranks and insignia of the Defence forces. Ain’t it cool to be called Lieutenant Commander ABCDEF?              I was selected to the SSB interview (which every individual has to clear to get into Indian defence) based on my class XII percentage. I would suggest every one of you to attend this interview even though you don’t want to join defence since it helps you understand your qualities, capabilities and calibre. One need not be very diligent to clear it. Just basic education till XII is the pre-requisite. For me it was conducted in Bhopal. There were 4 rounds where I was judged based on the physical, mental, psychological qualities and at last a medical test. We were 80 students in our group and 2 of us were navodayans. You all know that a navodayan gets along with another one so well. We instantly became good friends. The other guy was from JNV Pathananthitta, Kerala. Believe it or not, finally it was me and him who cleared all the tests including 5 more days of medical test. We did it to the Indian Naval Academy (10 others got temporarily rejected who had the option of taking a medical check up and then join the academy which was mostly tentative). Every other batch mate was shocked to hear that two navodayans made it where as many other guys who went to some Hi-fi English Medium School couldn’t. I was not very fluent in speaking English then. So, I gave all the interviews and group-discussions in Hindi (Thanks to the migration system in Navodaya).             I gave SSB interview when I already had an admission in NITK Surathkal. I was at last selected to navy after all the police verification and medical tests. I was in a complete dilemma whether to leave NIT to join INA or not. I finally decided to go to INA. We were 100 in our batch and there were four classes- Alpha, Bravo, Charlie and Delta. Unlike me most of the cadets who came there had intended to clear SSB, took classes for it and came there. I felt a bit regretted when they asked me why I left such a good college. There was ragging too. But it was official and healthy. Seniors cared a lot for their squadron juniors (we had 4 squadrons like four houses in Navodaya). There were no illegal forms of ragging as some seniors had been rusticated from the academy for doing so. The food was amazing. I would have easily got a B.tech degree and get posted in some coastal areas of India as a naval officer after 4 years. But I felt there was too much discipline in the academy. Also we were supposed to sign on a bond paper to stay there for 20 years. I didn’t like it. I left the academy after two weeks and continued my engineering in NITK.It’s not that all the officers were strict. There were many who were very friendly with us. For example- on the 3rd day during drill class our drill sergeant was speaking to me,Drill Sergeant: UN! What's your sole purpose in this navy?I: To do whatever you tell me, drill sergeant! (Seniors advised us to answer this to the drill sergeant)Drill Sergeant: God damn it, UN! You're a god damn genius! This is the most outstanding answer I have ever heard. You must have a goddamn I.Q. of 160. You are goddamn gifted, Cadet UN. Listen up, people…(Now for some reason I fit in the Navy like one of them round pegs. It's not really hard. You just make your bed real neat and remember to stand up straight and always answer every question with "Yes, drill sergeant." )Drill Sergeant: ...Is that clear?Everyone: Yes, drill sergeant!             I didn’t leave the academy because I was castigated by those slang swear words which I never heard of, nor because of the official ragging involved. But I felt something was incomplete. I wasn’t feeling comfortable in spite of the quality food, games we played, swimming and rowing classes we had in between the class hours and very affable and caring seniors. I missed that part of engineering where we can actually build the bots, construct our own machine prototypes along with their simulation in different softwares and learn new stuff. In fact there was no time for all these in the academy. The time table was set by them and very less importance was given to academics. I believe, a person does his job efficiently and effectively when he sets timetable for himself and does whatever interests him the most.           Everything was taken care of except the academics part. Most of the teachers who taught us were not confident and took teaching for granted. I still remember the first class of Engineering Physics. The teacher’s name was Lieutenant Commander Mrs. Chawla Rathore. She was quite beautiful and hot enough to drive men wild!! WE (We were 25 students in our class-Alpha):  Wow! And then - Good morning Ma’am.Ma’am: Good morning. Please sit down.WE: (murmuring) Guy1 : what do you think she’s gonna teach?                                    Guy2:  (still looking at her agape).Ma’am: Okay listen up cadets. You there, shut your mouth and sit straight. I don’t entertain any indiscipline in class.              Well, to begin with, how many states of matter are there?WE: (Shouting) 4,..5,..3.Ma’am: Silence! Yes you.(He said there are four states and named them, One more guy added ‘Bose Einstein Condensate’ and made it 5.)Ma’am: Good. (Casually) Actually, there are many states of matter!Everyone: What the?!Random guy: Guys, take it positively. She must be encouraging us to find out more states of matter! On the other side, Indian defence offers you a very good standard of life. To mention a few, you have a very good pay scale, all basic amenities free of cost to you and your family. Respect in the society and most importantly good health and hygiene.  The reason I left it is just that I am not its type. I went there thinking I could manage it. But I couldn’t, and I don’t regret it because I imagined a different way of life after XII std., which I am enjoying now.Anyway, I can never forget those two weeks I spent in Indian navy, trying to learn Malayalam (Though I ended up learning only slang words), making friends, cursing the Captain for making us stand in line for two to three hours just to take attendance, gorgeous Physics ma’am, scary boating experiences and many more.            Not only me, all of us reach a crossroad at a certain point of our lives. Taking a proper decision will take you to the destiny you hoped for. If you’re tired, sleep; if you’re hungry, eat; if you’re missing someone, call them, speak to them. Do what you want do in life, not what others want you to do. If your parents are against your decision, try to convince them. No parent would like to put their children in the Guantanamo Bay!         My mamma and pappa always told me that we each have a destiny and “we are the makers of our own destiny”. Captain Bal Bahadhur Singh used to tell us that we are all floating around like feathers on a breeze and the wind takes us to our destiny.          But I think it’s both. Both are happening at the same time. The people one comes across and the situations one faces mould his/her character. So, every one of us owe a lot to our Navodaya because of which we are here, being responsible citizens of the country and I am grateful to all the teachers, friends, annas and akkas who actually made it possible.